So what constitutes a behaviour of “terrible 2s”?
All of it. All of a sudden, you may see them screaming, kicking, biting, fighting with siblings and peers, total meltdowns (uncalled for) and of course classic temper tantrums. It sounds terrible and for them it is truly. Children are going through huge developmental changes around age 2, and at that, very exciting ones. They are picking up on new gross motor skills like jumping, climbing as well as the fine motor skills like building blocks and using crayons and markers. But all at the same time their verbal skills lag behind and therefore this makes them unable to tell you what they want and need. SO yes, it is quite terrible. They feel helpless and frustrated and they show it to you just the same way. They cry easily, scream, and get angry. They love their independence and ability to do all these things but get super mad when their wishes aren’t easily understood. or example, For example he may ask for water, only to break down in tears because you gave it to him in a red cup instead of a blue one. We have all experienced this one I am sure!!
Believe it or not, you can stop the most common triggers for their tantrums!! These usually stem from being overtired, hungry and entertained. Simply put, always strive to make sure their nap and quiet time is not disturbed as well as their meal time. And at meal time, do not ask what they wish to eat rather than just offer them 2 options. This is much easier for them to understand, choose and be happy with their selection. And then add to all of this a healthy dose of variety of activities.
